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How To Lead With A Dotted Line Relationship

By Carolyn Stevens | People Leadership, Teamwork | 0 comment | 19 October, 2016 | 13

You’ve got responsibility for producing impressive results—yet zero positional power and minimal authority. That’s the struggle of dotted line leadership, isn’t it? Dotted line reporting has become common these days—but it often gets a bad rap because of its bureaucratic twist. Nonetheless, when you’re managing across the line, you don’t need a pity party. YouRead more

The “Best Places To Work” Have Remarkable Revenue Growth

By Carolyn Stevens | Emotional Intelligence, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 5 October, 2016 | 2

Every year, the Great Place To Work Institute researches, you guessed it, the Best Places to Work. Here’s one of their stats: “The best added $1.07B to the Australian economy with an average revenue growth of 39.6%.” Those numbers talk, don’t they! Some Organisations Have A Reputation For Being Downright Compelling To Work With AlsoRead more

What’s The Most Impactful Leadership Development Process, Ever? 

By Carolyn Stevens | Feedback, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 20 September, 2016 | 5

“The belief that one’s own view of reality is the only reality is the most dangerous of all delusions.” —Paul Watzlawick (Austrian-American psychologist and philosopher) Way Too Many Leaders Are Sitting Behind The Eight-Ball… …because they haven’t gotten authentic, granular feedback about their leadership practices and behaviours from their boss, peers and team members. Their self-perception is thus atRead more

“How Can I…….”     Answers To Leaders’ Most Asked Questions

By Carolyn Stevens | People Leadership, Teamwork, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 24 August, 2016 | 3

Whether you’re a leader who’s currently being coached or not, I’m confident that you’ll find checking out these often asked questions—and my responses—a valuable way to spend the next 3 or 4 minutes. I have a quick disclaimer first though. Without being aware of: a) your personal circumstances b) your natural leadership style, and c) the environmentalRead more

How To Be An Awesome Leader

By Carolyn Stevens | Communication, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 4 May, 2016 | 3

This snippet’s intention is to lift your awareness of two subtle yet crucial behaviours. When you focus on them, I mean really focus on them, you’ll be an awesome leader… Whether you succeed or fail isn’t because you’ve pushed-to-get-the-numbers.   The Key to Your Success is Whether Your Team Members Are On-side or Off-side. AndRead more

Happy, Positive Leader = Successful Leader

By Carolyn Stevens | Emotional Intelligence, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 2 March, 2016 | 0

You want a promotion. You want to meet targets. You want acknowledgement for your work. Because you think it’ll make you feel happy.And it will, but only fleetingly.So before you know it, you’re chasing your next goal in the hope that it’ll have you feeling happy and positive!Again it will, but only fleetingly—and then you’reRead more

Overwhelmed And Overstressed?

By Carolyn Stevens | Emotional Intelligence, I'm OK, You're OK, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 17 February, 2016 | 8

In a 360-feedback interview a team member described his leader as being inconsiderate and unreasonable. He went on to say that when his leader was overwhelmed and overstressed, the leader had a “very short fuse”. Further investigations with other team members told a similar story: They felt devalued and disrespected because their leader was sometimesRead more

Hottest Leadership Topics In 2015

By Carolyn Stevens | Emotional Intelligence, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 16 December, 2015 | 0

Just quickly, before we get to 2015’s hot topics, I want to say… Whether you’re a person I coach, a sponsor of a person I coach, a business associate or a friend, I appreciate you being in my 2015. Thank you! It’s been a valuable year and I’m glad you were a part of itRead more

How To Immediately Rejuvenate Your Leadership

By Carolyn Stevens | I'm OK, You're OK, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 11 November, 2015 | 0

“How am I going?” That’s the question great leaders ask those around them—their direct reports, peers and boss. It’s their opinions that count as you rejuvenate your leadership. They know. They’re the people who’re watching you.   What Motivates Great Leaders To Ask The Question? Great leaders: Care about being an exceptional leader. Good enoughRead more

How To Ease The Stress Of Difficult Conversations

By Carolyn Stevens | Conflict Management/Tough Conversations, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 2 September, 2015 | 0

95% of leaders find difficult conversations stressful. Many leaders admit their apprehension about having a difficult discussion is enough to put it off for days, even sometimes for months—regardless of the huge costs of doing so. But there is a way to ease the stress…   How’s It Going to Be When You Get aRead more

Can You Create Zealous Team Members?

By Carolyn Stevens | Feedback, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 5 August, 2015 | 0

Highly zealous team member are: —Highly productive team members. They focus on achieving brilliant outcomes, faster. Their personal commitment positively impacts the way they approach problems. —The hub of high performing teams. They support and encourage one-another. They share their talents with their peers, for the greater good of the team. The team is knownRead more

How To Point Your Finger Productively, Rather Than Negligently

By Carolyn Stevens | Communication, I'm OK, You're OK, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 1 July, 2015 | 0

One of the traps you and I both fall into, when we’re not eagle-eyed about it, is to blame others when something goes off-track. We either physically, verbally or attitudinally point our finger at someone else. We think, talk and behave as if another person is the cause of the trouble. The problem is, whenRead more

Poor Performance—It’s Disturbing, And Costly Too

By Carolyn Stevens | Conflict Management/Tough Conversations, Feedback, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 17 June, 2015 | 0

I’m going to cut to the chase in this bulletin. Please forgive me if I offend you. And please know that I am well-intended and here to help… There are lots of disturbing things about poor performance. And the most disturbing aspect by far is how common it is for leaders to tolerate poor performance!Read more

You’ll Like This Easy-To-Use Tool For Changing A Behaviour

By Carolyn Stevens | Communication, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 6 May, 2015 | 0

Trying to change a behaviour can be exasperating, can’t it? Many, many attempted behavioural changes get derailed. Unless something special happens, it’s way too easy to, wittingly or unwittingly, resurrect the old habit. We’re very reluctant to change our behaviours. But I have a treat for you, courtesy of best-selling author, Marshall Goldsmith. (The toolRead more

Do You Want More Accountability From Your Team Members?

By Carolyn Stevens | Delegation, People Leadership | 0 comment | 1 April, 2015 | 3

To be frank, most leaders spend too much time drilling down into the details of their team members’ jobs. It’s the leaders job to create an environment that has team members accepting real accountability for meeting their objectives! How much drilling down, micro-managing, are you doing? Hold your head high if you’re focusing on theRead more

Thank You For Deciding To Read This Bulletin

By Carolyn Stevens | Emotional Intelligence, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 5 November, 2014 | 0

I appreciate you taking the time to read this bulletin  Some leaders have it embedded in their DNA to let others know that they appreciate them—and for other leaders it’s a learned skill. Regardless of your genetics, let’s look at why thanking a team member, or anyone really, is a hugely impactful habit to develop.Read more

How To Perfect The Tough-Tender Balance

By Carolyn Stevens | Communication, People Leadership | 0 comment | 3 September, 2014 | 0

Follow Your Natural Tendency At Your Peril It’s not that tough is more effective than tender, or that tender is more effective than tough… It’s that some leaders automatically take a tough stanceyou know, those firm leaders whose decisions are based on a detached logic, who take a no-compromise position, whose judgment disregards sentiment orRead more

As A Leader, Do You Ever React—Rather Than Skilfully Respond?

By Carolyn Stevens | Communication, Emotional Intelligence, People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 6 August, 2014 | 0

Oh my gosh, occasionally circumstances seem to line up against us, don’t they? You know those days, when the traffic made you late for a meeting, then the content of the meeting had you feeling hot under the collar, and then, on the way back to your desk, one of your team members, Mike, informsRead more

Confidence Is A Choice—Not A Symptom

By Carolyn Stevens | People Leadership, You As A Leader | 0 comment | 18 June, 2014 | 0

Seth Godin, whom I must say is the most consistently stimulating and highly creative author I’ve ever encountered, strikes again in my Leadership Bulletin this month . This time it’s with a reminder of a pivotal insight into a setting that we each encounter day-by-day, even minute-by-minute… Seth said: “The batter has already hit twoRead more

The Best Leaders Ask The Best Questions—Of Themselves

By Carolyn Stevens | Communication, People Leadership | 0 comment | 7 May, 2014 | 0

Let’s cut to the chase: Good leaders ask good questions—starting with the questions that they ask of themselves. Good questions create a productive mindset… That productive mindset determines what questions the leader asks of others—and those questions help others foster their productive mindsets.   Examples Of Good Questions Are… “What can we do to getRead more

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